Archive for the ‘Life as a Wedding Officiant’ Category

Maple & Tim: A Sweet & Intimate Wedding Ceremony At Kirkland’s Woodmark Hotel

Tuesday, November 15th, 2011

I loved every moment of knowing and working with Maple and Tim as we worked together to create and deliver their wedding ceremony.

On Sunday, October 2nd, Tim and Maple exchanged vows in front of a wonderful group of thrilled family and friends – there was just so much joy in the Woodmark tent on this beautiful October morning!

As I fondly recall Maple and Tim’s ceremony, I remember these things:

1) Maple’s beautiful and glowing smile as she walked down the aisle to Tim.

2) Laughter. This was both a traditional and contemporary ceremony – and lightness worked at times.

3) Parent Remembrance: Maple’s Mother, Lily, and Tim’s Father, Bell – we created a sweet ritual within the ceremony to remember these beloved parents who have passed on.

4) In honor of Maple and Tim’s Chinese culture, we designed “8″ blessings around the ring exchange…it worked perfectly!

Maple & Tim: You lead with joy, laughter, grateful hearts and much kindness. It is such a joy to know you.

Best Halloween Eve Wedding Ever! Congratulations to John & Tressa!

Sunday, October 30th, 2011

I was so the most under-dressed person at John and Tressa’s wedding last night!

I walked into Georgetown Ballroom to find all guests dressed up in their best Halloween garb. 

John, Tressa and their wedding party were in gorgeous wedding attire and it was a hoot to officiate this fun couple’s ceremony with 100+ people in the most fun costume and outfits.

I immediately found the lighting was a bit too low in the ceremony area.  Thankfully, wedding planner Megan Keller scrambled at the last moment to get some light for my 50-year-old eyes and to insure that photographer Barbie Hull would get her best shots. 

I further fussed with a few elements in the ceremony area for best effect and with a live band to accompany elements of their ceremony, John and Tressa exchanged vows during a “tears and giggles” kind of ceremony that was perfect in all ways.

John and Tressa – you truly out-did yourselves last night. You created a wedding day that truly brought out the best of who you are as a couple and a family.  Kudos to you!

(Photographer) Barbie Hullwww.barbiehull.com

(Wedding Planner) Megan Kellerwww.akurantevent.com

Dave & Katie: A Sweet Mix of Elegance, Sweetness & Spunk and A Truly Goofy & Wonderful Dude!

Monday, October 17th, 2011

Dave & Katie.

He’s a truly wonderful and goofy guy.

She’s a gem of a lady with a huge heart and sensitive soul.

When the clouds parted on Sunday, October 9th, Dave and Katie got their wish to be married outdoors at Clise Mansion at Marymoor Park, surrounded by 100+ very happy family and friends.

Dave and Katie got it right.  They made a call to have their ceremony outdoors because all of the planets aligned well:  sunshine, not too chilly, a beautiful outdoor venue space. 

Some couples fail to do this.  They are so focused on having their wedding “outside” that they fail to consider the comfort of their guests and the overall ambiance

Seattle’s dynamic duo, Brian & Jennifer Hartman from Photo Elan captured this wonderful photo mid-ceremony just outside of Clise Mansion.

So, as I write this, Dave and Katie are on their last honeymoon days in Maui.  I wish this beautiful couple much “Aloha” in their marriage adventure.  Dave and Katie – thank you for the wonderful memories!

Photo Elan:  www.photoelan.com

1 Tiny Wedding Ceremony Tip – Plan For An Elegant Start To Your Ceremony

Monday, October 10th, 2011

I had such a lovely weekend.  Congratulations to Scott and Tonya (Sorrento Hotel) and Dave & Katie (Clise Mansion) – married in style over this glorious Fall weekend.

Okay, here’s a tiny tip and most important to those of you who have yet to print your wedding invitations.

TIP: If you are planning for a 5:00 p.m. ceremony, put 4:30 p.m or 4:45 p.m. on your wedding invitation.

I am a big fan of a prompt start to a ceremony – or within 5-10 minutes of the appointed hour.  Not only is this respectful to the couple, their family and wedding party but it keeps a wedding day on track. 

So, depending on your venue, travel considerations, weekend events and road closures, consider putting an earlier start time on your invite.  This insures your ceremony will start elegantly and promptly and gives your Officiant and/or Planner “fudge time” to insure everyone and everything is taken care of.

I’m A Lucky Gal. Sweet & Poignant Updates From Couples Of Years Past…

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

Smooch!

Just look at this face.  Welcome to the world, Sylvia Helene!  I married your Mommy and Daddy (Guido and Carrie) and I happily remember their fun-filled and sweet wedding day at The Corson Building in Seattle.  You are one lucky girl to have such wonderful parents and your two big sisters!

Using the excuse to “vote for me” via KING 5′s Best of Western contest, I’ve been reaching out to my couples from the past year or two and loving the stories and updates.

Jen & Keith are new parents to Clare Madeline.  Kelly and Jason are thrilled to celebrate their 1st anniversary in December.  Luke and Amanda shared they were at one of my weddings 2 weeks ago.  LeeAnn and Brad are enjoying their new home in Phoenix.  Annie & Ethan have a new little one. 

Jean & Larry are happy and well on Bainbridge Island.  Jackie and Andrew are working together and loving their daughter, Nichola.  Jen and Craig are lucky parents to Mitchell.  Brian & McAulay are “still giddy in love.”  Kristin & Max have two sons now!  Scott & Sarah just celebrated their 4th anniversary with a special meal.  John & Jennifer are busy and finally at home. 

Isaiah and Mercedes are living happily in Sammamish with their two daughters. Steve and Gabe are over the moon for their son, Connor.  Fred and Jennie are about to have a baby.  Katy’s husband, Matt, is deployed and she is home with their son, Max.  Alexa is happy to report that she and Cesar are happy and living in Issaquah and she is grieving the loss of her Father.  Jeff and Ai welcome their 2nd child this December.

Call me a most lucky gal to be a huge and happy part of this wonderful, chaotic, joyful, challenging and sweet tapestry of life!

Kevin & Amy Ullrich – Pure Joy, Fun & Grace From Our 1st Meeting To Their Wedding Day!

Monday, September 26th, 2011

Kevin & Amy Ullrich

I remember the first day I met with Kevin and Amy.
It was a full and long work day (yeah!) and I was a bit stressed because my husband and I had a beloved special needs dog at home with unexpected health challenges.
If you know anything about me, dog rescue and rehab is my heart and soul work – with this wedding work, I couldn’t ask for a more beautiful life.
So, when I sat down with Kevin & Amy, I shared a tiny bit of what was going on with me rather than the typical, “I’m fine,” which really isn’t me.  With their gracious and kind response, I knew we were a fit to share in the intimate and sacred moment of a wedding ceremony.  Funny how life works, isn’t it?
And so, working together to create a beautiful ceremony – with the orchestration of a lively rehearsal – and the beauty of a well-thought out wedding day, Kevin and Amy exchanged vows in front of a full room of thrilled family and friends at Court in the Square this past Spring in Seattle.
Joy – Fun – Grace.  These 3 words amplify the heart of this couple and it was a joy for me to share in this day. 

A Sunrise Ceremony On The Kirkland Waterfront – Wade & Jessica Style!

Monday, September 19th, 2011

Wade & Jessica Hopkins

I love a paradox of life.
What appears to be big is small.
What appears to be small is big.
Wade and Jessica celebrated their loving relationship with the commitment of marriage in a small and intimate early morning ceremony witnessed by their parents and two close friends.
We gathered on the Kirkland waterfront last Saturday at 7:30 a.m. and with the sound of gentle waves, Wade and Jessica exchanged some of the most gorgeous vows I have ever heard.  The vows were a surprise and shared with a few tears and a few laughs.
What I truly love about this couple is their conscious intention to co-create a spiritual partnership for today, tomorrow and always.   This isn’t about “you complete me,” rather it’s about bringing your best self to a relationship and choosing every day to consider ”how do I show up?” and “how can I love myself by loving my partner?”
Wade and Jessica – I am profoundly touched by your story and so look forward so staying in touch as you move forward in life together, with your two children and unexpected and wonderful surprises/blessings!

Take A Page From Ed & Jenelle’s “Wedding Playbook” For A Well-Done Wedding Celebration At A Family Home!

Tuesday, September 13th, 2011

I loved everything about working with Ed and Jenelle Tirado.  I got to know them better through our pre-marriage coaching work and had the grand joy of joining them on their wedding day, hosted by Jenelle’s mother at a family home in Auburn.

August 27th was a gorgeous day for this wedding ceremony and celebration, held on a lawn overlooking the water of this lakeside home. 

When I arrived for the ceremony, I was immediately taken with the careful and sweet detail woven into the planning of the ceremony and the day.  Taking a page from Ed and Jenelle’s “wedding playbook,” here are 3 best tips if you are planning your wedding day at a home:

1)  Hire An Air Traffic Controller – That’s right – most home weddings would thrive and do best with a day-of planner or wedding consultant.  Because the home host or hostess most often tends to be an immediate family member, having someone on-site to coordinate all day-of details allows family to “relax in their home” and truly enjoy the day.

2)  Parking Valet/Coordinator – Place a parking coordinator outside the home to assist guests with parking.  This not only is a best welcoming gesture, it also insures cars are properly parked and neighbors are happy campers.

3)  A Tent Is A Smart Option…And A Pretty One!  For most home weddings with 50+ guests, it often works to have a tent in the back yard.  This allows a decorating focal point – serves as shade on a very hot day – and in the event of rain, provides cover.  The cost can be spendy and having been to many home weddings, a tent is often wise and best insurance for a fabulous wedding day!


Jeri and Amy’s Sweet & Memorable Wedding Day At Seattle’s Historic Corson Building…

Wednesday, September 7th, 2011

Jeri & Amy Andrews

In this work that I do, I am deeply grateful for the intimate opportunity to know two loving people and share in their wedding celebration.

Sometimes, I think this work may get old for me.

And Honey, I am 9 years into this “officiating biz”  and am as much in love with my work as I am in awe of Jeri and Amy – the two smiling faces at the right!

I had the profound opportunity to officiate Jeri and Amy’s wedding ceremony on August 12th at Seattle’s historic Corson Building in Georgetown. 

With 100+ family and friends – more than a few hankies – and so much joy and laughter, Jeri and Amy exchanged vows and celebrated their commitment of a lifetime.

Jeri and Amy represent and model in so many ways what I cherish about a loving and spiritual partnership - the opportunity to love and be loved, the push to grow and stretch, the profound giggles and fun moments – and for Jeri and Amy, this includes their day-long walks, loving their family and friends, their unhealthy obsession with real estate and most of all, their grand devotion and commitment to one another.

Plan B: Tips For Making Quick & Big Unexpected Changes On Your Seattle Wedding Day…

Monday, August 29th, 2011

Eric and Charene were beautifully married on a Sunday morning last month and Photographer Paul Dudley exquisitely captured this gorgeous photo of this family immediately after “I Do!”

What you don’t see here is a what happened after I arrived on-site.  Eric and Charene planned an outdoor ceremony at a family home however Mother Nature wasn’t cooperating.  When I arrived, it was lightly raining and the couple, family and wedding party were gathered under a rented tent (smart move!)

After consulting with the couple, family and Paul, we all decided that the smart move would be to re-set the tent for the ceremony. Sure, we could have taken the chance of going on as planned for outside and the smart move was to flip things quickly to insure comfort and peace.

Here are tips if you get to a wedding day and need to get to Plan B:

1)  Just Do It.  If you are at a venue, chances are you’ll have to make a decision 2-4 hours before your ceremony.  At a private home, you can do anything you wish.  Be pro-active and go for the conservative decision.  The key?  You want to insure that your family and friends are comfortable – rain and wind don’t create a warm and romantic atmosphere to enjoy a ceremony.

2)  Appointment A Spokesperson.  If the weather looks challenging, appoint a spokesperson who will be the “air traffic controller” around last minute changes and decisions.  This person is the intermediary between a venue/home host and the couple.  Oftentimes on a wedding day, a couple is taking photos and otherwise engaged and needs someone to make decisions on their behalf – and to run interference!

3)  “People Won’t Remember What You Say – They Will Remember How You Made Them Feel.”  Nothing rings more true that this statement when it comes to a wedding ceremony.  If you and your guests are comfortable and peaceful, you’ll remember more of your wedding moments.  A wedding is all about creating a legacy of “feeling.”  So knowing this, make your difficult decisions as soon as you can on an inclement weather day and get on with it!

Photographer Paul Dudleywww.pauldudleyphotography.com

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